It is widely accepted that, as
people grow older, maintaining social connections plays a vital role in
happiness and wellbeing. But what exactly does “social connection” mean, and
does it always require active participation in large social gatherings?
For many, the image of connection
conjures up groups of friends or acquaintances eating, drinking, and chatting
for hours. Such activities can indeed bring joy and a sense of belonging. Yet,
for others, especially those with more introverted temperaments, these
gatherings can feel draining rather than energizing. This raises an important
question: can social connection take other forms?
The answer is yes. Social
connection is not limited to physical presence in group settings. Basically, it
is about meaningful bonds, trust, and the assurance that one is not alone in
the world. Connection may be nurtured through deep relationships with family
and friends, participation in spiritual or faith-based activities, involvement
in purposeful work, or even through creative expression that touches and
engages others.
Personality differences matter.
Extroverts may thrive on long hours of group interaction, while introverts
often find fulfillment in quieter, more purposeful exchanges. What is essential
is not the form, but the function: having supportive relationships, remaining
open to contact, and staying engaged in meaningful activities.
In this sense, the call to maintain
social connections in later life is best understood not as a mandate to join
every gathering, but as an invitation to ensure one’s life is not lived in
isolation. Whether through a few trusted friendships, shared worship,
mentorship, or purposeful creative work, individuals can cultivate connection
in ways that align with their own nature.
Ultimately, happiness in later
years is not about copying the social patterns of others. It is about finding
the rhythm of interaction whether frequent or occasional, lively or quiet, that
nourishes one’s sense of belonging and joy.
