EMBRACING SELF-WORTH: THE VIRTUE OF NOT COMPARING ONESELF TO OTHERS

In a world where social media and societal standards often dictate our sense of self-worth, it is all too easy to fall into the trap of comparing ourselves to others. We see curated snapshots of lives that seem perfect, filled with possessions and achievements that we believe we lack. However, the true measure of a person is not found in what they own, but in their values, integrity, and the unique qualities they bring to the world. Embracing self-worth and confidence, without the need for comparison, is a virtue that can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic life.

Every individual is inherently endowed with a set of unique qualities and talents. These attributes are the foundation of our identity and self-worth. When we focus on what makes us distinct, we begin to appreciate the richness of our own character. This self-awareness fosters confidence and a sense of purpose that cannot be shaken by external comparisons. It is essential to remember that our value is not diminished by the successes or possessions of others. Instead, our worth is intrinsic, rooted in who we are and the values we uphold.

One of the most significant virtues we can cultivate is honesty. Being truthful with ourselves and others builds trust and respect, which are far more valuable than any material possession. Honesty is a cornerstone of integrity, another vital quality that defines our character. Living with integrity means acting consistently with our values, even when no one is watching. It means making choices that align with our principles, and this steadfastness earns us a good name and the respect of those around us.

A good name, built on the foundation of honesty and integrity, is one of the most precious assets one can possess. Unlike material wealth, which can be lost or diminished, a good reputation endures. It opens doors, creates opportunities, and fosters relationships that are built on mutual respect and trust. When we focus on developing and maintaining a good name, we shift our attention from fleeting possessions to lasting values.

Encouraging ourselves and others to stop comparing and start valuing is a powerful step toward personal growth. It allows us to appreciate our journey and the progress we make, no matter how small it may seem in comparison to others. Each person’s path is unique, and what might seem like a minor achievement to one could be a significant milestone to another. Celebrating these individual victories fosters a sense of accomplishment and encourages continuous self-improvement.

It is also important to recognize that everyone has their struggles and insecurities, often hidden behind the facade of success. By comparing ourselves to others, we only see a fraction of their reality, often overlooking the challenges they face. Understanding this helps us to be kinder to ourselves and others, fostering a sense of empathy and compassion.

In conclusion, the virtue of not comparing oneself to others lies in the recognition and appreciation of our intrinsic worth. By focusing on our unique qualities, values, and the integrity of our actions, we can build a strong foundation of self-confidence and self-respect. Embracing who we are, rather than who we are not, allows us to lead a life of authenticity and fulfillment. Remember, our true value is not measured by what we possess, but by the honesty, integrity, and good name we cultivate through our actions and choices.

A SENSE OF RIGHT AND WRONG

People often have different perspectives on various issues, leading to a broad spectrum of views on what is right and wrong. However, does this diversity of viewpoints mean that all views are valid? If we say that each viewpoint is valid, then we are saying that no one is right or wrong; it is only a matter of having different views  of the same subject. While this principle promotes tolerance and understanding, it has its limitations and cannot be applied universally without leading to moral chaos.

When addressing how individuals should perceive and judge issues, it is essential to rely on the inner core, the spirit, rather than solely on the reasoning mind. The reasoning mind or the intellect is meant to support the spirit, not lead it. When the intellect takes precedence, it results in the moral disparities we observe across different cultures and societies. What is considered morally wrong in one region might be accepted or even celebrated in another, highlighting the inconsistencies that arise from prioritizing earthly intellect over spiritual discernment.

The spirit, in contrast, offers expressions that are uniform across all boundaries and devoid of contradiction. Presently, to remain in good standing everywhere, a person travelling the world must constantly adjust his conscience, much like changing clothes when moving from one country to another. What is considered a crime in one country may be permissible or even welcomed in another. These discrepancies are a natural consequence of basing societal values on the earthly intellect.

However, when the intellect serves its natural role as a tool of the living spirit, the situation changes. Those who listen to their spirit will adhere to the laws of God, which operate uniformly everywhere.  These laws provide a foundation that eliminates moral discrepancies, fostering uniformity that leads to happiness and peace. The expressions of the spirit, in their basic features, are always consistent and never contradictory.

In conclusion, while it is important to recognize and respect different viewpoints, not all perspectives can be deemed valid when it comes to fundamental moral issues and matters that concern the welfare and development of humanity. Reliance on the spirit, rather than the reasoning mind, ensures adherence to universal moral principles that transcend cultural and societal differences. By grounding our sense of right and wrong in spiritual discernment or intuitive perceptions, we can achieve a harmonious, consistent moral and societal framework that promotes true peace and happiness. Also, the arts of justice, healing and statesmanship will be enhanced when we infuse them with our spirituality and they will  have a better effect on mankind than hitherto.