ENVY AND JEALOUSY

These two are not the same!

We feel envy when we think that someone has a desirable attribute that we lack. Jealousy is what we feel when we sense that something we already have (e.g. a relationship) is threatened by someone else.

So, while envy happens between two people, jealousy is tripartite. Envy is about what we lack and jealousy is about not losing something or someone that we have. However both envy and jealousy can be felt simultaneously if for example a person who we consider a rival for a loved one’s attention also have what we lack!  This way we feel jealous and envious at the same time.

Having said this, let us realise that envy and jealousy are products of our thoughts and thoughts are real otherwise they would have no effect on us. When we think, speak or act out of envy or jealousy, we sow seeds which will later germinate, grow and ripen for us to reap. And because like begets like, the fruits that arise from envy and jealousy are not sweet ones.

Furthermore, when we engage in thoughts of envy and jealousy, these thoughts take on real forms and remain attached to us. Of course a person surrounded by thoughts of envy and jealousy is automatically blocked from receiving the blessings that would naturally flow to those of good will. Sadly, envy and jealousy have many followers and that is why there is so much evil in the world.

What should we do? Let us make a change by giving purity to our thoughts and then base all our words thoughts and deeds on love. The love we need is not the earthly demanding love which comes along with jealousy but pure love that considers only what benefits the loved one.

From now on, especially in this Season of Love, may we resolve to be committed to pure love so that help from above can stream to us, strengthen us, purify our surroundings and also help our neighbours to change for the better.